Posted by Anonymous on 2015/07/24 under Uncategorized I wrote a few days ago about problem I had and now I think other people have got involved and ruined the whole thing. The person is being evasive, avoiding me and being short with me. I don’t think I can handle something of a rejection, which I have now convinced myself of. Let me explain it to you with simplicity, I think I am in love with someone who I don’t think even has capability to love me back and it kills me inside, in my first post a few days ago I was convinced there was even the slightest chance to find true and utter happiness and I really believed that I had a chance. But based on the conversations that happened today, I no longer think it is possible. Seriously what do I do, I really don’t think I can move on. I believed I had loved before in my life but this is completely different, its passion, joy, happiness on the line. Do I take things slow and hope for the best? or do I just give up and be miserable for the rest of my life. I can’t just go for it because of things I can’t really discuss but that part you will just have to trust me. I really just need someone to talk to without judgement hopefully your comments/advice will assist me and help because I really need it.
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Dear person in love,
I know how cumbersome is to be in the sane situation you find yourself right now. But please, do not choose the darkness and the solitude.
I have chosen this pathway and there is nothing slightly pleasant there, I asure you. If you have the opportunity, give hints to the person about the evasiveness and the apparent distance is being put between you two. Rejection, bad as it might appear, is actually possible to overcome. It might take time, but we eventually heal ourselves from that. Unfortunately, I learned by experience.
Remember, there are good and bad days for everybody. You eventually came across a bad day for the person you are cherishing and it gave you those impressions. Give a little more time before reaching a definitive conclusion and see whether the situation changes again.
Remember: Love is always worth, for even when it is not reciprocated or fulfilled, the experience changes us for the better.
Take care,
Z.